Wednesday, October 15, 2014

How to Date a Girl

You’ve probably already found out that there’s no one key to dating girls, since every girl is different. What impresses one girl may repel another, but that’s just a chance you’ll have to take when you hit the dating scene. Regardless of a girl’s personal preferences, there are some universal rules of dating that will help you land that second date, and maybe even a third. Read on to find out how to make your dating life a success.

Part1: Being Your Best:

1. Project confidence.
One of the most attractive qualities a potential date can have is palpable confidence. Girls will be interested in you if you seem to have a lot going on: you’re involved in activities, you have friends, you speak your opinion, and you have long-term goals. Confidence can stem from a lot of places. You don’t have to be a basketball star to attract a girl; just get involved in something that shows you at your best. What activity allows you to shine? There’s a big difference between confidence and arrogance. Confident people are admired by others for their talent, but also their grace and humility. If you’re confident in yourself, you won’t find the need to brag about it.

2. Be genuine
Don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t - girls will be able to see right through it. There’s nothing wrong with reading up on a band you know a girl likes so you can have a conversation about it later, but don’t pretend you know how to play the guitar unless you’re prepared to play her a song at a moment’s notice. Be real, and you won’t have to lie.

3. Present yourself well
Every girl has different preferences, or “types,” but don’t worry too much about trying to wear all the latest trends. Dress appropriately for the situation - no sleeveless shirts at a martini bar, for example - and don’t overdo it with the cologne. If you show up to a party dressed at your personal best and feeling confident, you’ll act that way - and there’s a good chance the girl you’re trying to impress will forget she even has a type.

Part 2: Getting to Know Her on a Deeper Level

1. Don’t dwell too much on a girl’s appearance. Everyone likes receiving compliments, especially when they’ve obviously gone out of their way to dress up and look good, but that shouldn’t be the main topic of conversation. Give the girl you’d like to date a chance to be more than the cute dress and heels she’s wearing.

Especially avoid making sexual comments about a girl’s appearance when you’re trying to date her. Stick to tasteful comments about her clothes, hair, or smile.

2. Be a sincere conversationalist. Avoid pick up lines, because they don’t sound sincere. When you’re talking to a girl, say something you actually mean. When she responds, don’t just pretend to listen, really listen, and try to move the conversation to a place that feels “real.”

    Of course, the conversation should be appropriate for the setting. If you’re in a noisy bar, the girl you’re chatting up might not be in the mood to talk about personal or philosophical subjects. Still, it should be possible to say something meaningful about the music, the crowd, or the feel of the evening that shows her you’re enjoying the moment with her.

3. Let her get comfortable. When you’ve just met a girl and you want to ask her on a date, it’s very important that she feels comfortable being herself with you. Enjoy her quirks and unique qualities, and try not to be judgmental.

If you say something critical, even in jest, it could come off the wrong way and make her close up. Ask a lot of questions and follow up with comments that let her know you’re listening and care about what she’s saying. Joke around to keep things fun, but avoid making fun of the girl, her friends, her family, or anything else that hurt her feelings this early in the game.

Part 3: Being a Good Date

1. Put effort into your first date.
Take her somewhere special. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it should be clear you put some thought into it. Share your favorite restaurant with her, or take her to a beautiful scenic spot for a picnic. If you know she likes a particular sports team, buy tickets to a game.

2. Don’t get too nervous.
Don’t focus too much on the structure of the date. Instead, try to genuinely have a good time getting to know someone you’ve recently met. Think about all you have to learn about her, and all she has to learn about you. If you enjoy her company now, chances are she’s enjoying yours, too.

3. Get physical.

Whether you place your hand on her back while you’re waiting in line for tickets, hold hands during a movie, or go back to your place after dinner, some kind of physical touch will increase the intimacy you feel with the girl you’re dating. Just make sure it’s all consensual.

Part 4: Being Reliable

1. Call her when you say you will. If you ended your first date with a promise to call, follow up within the next few days.

If you reflected on the date and realize you’re no longer interested, give her the courtesy of letting her know you don’t think it’s going to work out. If you want to continue the relationship, don’t play hard to get. Be consistent in your communication.

2. Introduce her to your friends. Once you’ve gone on a few dates, a great way to get to know each other better is to introduce the girl you’re interested in to your friends. If they hit it off, you might be encouraged to take the relationship to a deeper level.

3. Throw in some surprises. Consistency is important when you’re dating, but you should also throw in some romantic surprises. The surprises will depend on the personality of the girl - maybe she’d love it if you cooked dinner for her, sent her flowers at work, or planned a fun weekend trip. She’ll be impressed by your thoughtfulness if you mix it up sometimes.


Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Reasons for the Raging Popularity of Online Dating Sites

Online dating offers individuals with extremely busy schedules, the opportunity to connect with the women of their dreams through the web. There are many online dating portals but it is important o choose a reputable and trusted site for the best online dating experience.

Online dating websites are frequented by individuals looking for their life partners, to start a relationship, make friends or find companions. The internet offers immense opportunities and possibilities for individuals who are unable to connect with the emotional side of their lives because of their intense professional commitments and busy schedules.

Why Russian Dating Sites are Preferred

Russian dating sites are extremely popular because of their proven authenticity and their ability to provide a large database of varied choice to meet the needs of every individual. Men from across the globe log in frequently to Russian dating sites as they offer easy access and secure uploading of profile. Most of these sites assure complete confidentiality to their registered members.

Russian women have long been acknowledged as epitome of beauty and are extremely gorgeous. There are innumerable examples of Russian women using the online Russian dating sites to unite with gentlemen across the globe and becoming their life partners.

Avoid Dubious Dating Portals

One of the biggest problems men face while using online dating sites is finding authentic dating services. There are thousands of dating sites out there on the internet but a large number of them are managed by unscrupulous elements just to rake in some easy money. It is important to do some research into the sites you are logging in before making any commitment. Russian dating websites are generally more reliable than others according to research data available on the internet.

It is the wish of every online dating individual to get a better response from Russian dating or marriage sites. A 10 per cent response rate is considered above average. Dating experts feel that chances of response can be improved significantly by being more direct in asking for a response.

Learning Russian Can Improve Your Chances of Getting Responses

Another mistake usually committed is using English more frequently than Russian. While most of the Russian girls are fluent in English, the chances of getting a response improve considerably if the emails are translated into Russian. Many sites offer translator services for a small fee.

Russian is the natural language of almost all the girls at Russian dating sites. They find it easy and comfortable to communicate with men who know Russian.

It is rightly assumed by men from all over the world that Russian women are the epitome of compassion and understanding. They adapt easily to any situation and have no qualms about settling down with decent, young and loving men from any corner of the world. That is the reason for the immense popularity of Russian dating sites.

Friday, December 6, 2013

Lindsay Lohan Dating Story

Lindsay Lohan
I'm Not Dating Liam Neeson's Son
I'm Not Banging Anyone

Lindsay Lohan is practicing the safest kind of sex -- NONE -- because she's too busy focusing on her career to worry about boys ... sources close to Lindsay tell TMZ.

According to sources, Lindsay's laughing off reports she's hooking up with Liam Neeson's 18-year-old son, Michael ... claiming they're only friends and have been for quite a while.

In fact, sources tell us, Lindsay hasn't been dating ANY of the people she's been reportedly seeing recently, including male models Morgan O'Connor (a friend of a friend) and Liam Dean (whom she met on a photo shoot).

Instead, we're told Lohan is laser-focused on her sobriety and her career ... plus, she's spending at least 2-3 days a week shooting her docu-series​ for Oprah's network.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

A Sad Dating Story

I am a 33 year old divorced father of one. I wish to share with everybody a financially and emotionally painful experience I had with an attractive 25 year old hairdresser from Yoshkar-Ola, Russia. On 7 April 2006 I received an email from a lady named Sofiya through an internet dating site. It was very short and straight to the point.

We then started exchanging emails and photos and I was fooled by her emotional and warm words. She talked about how important it is to have trust and that she prefers to view the world as having more good people than bad and that she could not wait until she lives with me in Australia to be "happy forever". She was very convincing and I believed everything she said. The slight difference in Sofiya's technique compared to other scammers was that she answers questions in detail. She even talked about some local issues and cultural matters too. When I asked her why such a beautiful young lady is interested in me, she said that Russian men are alcoholics and that they do not respect women. We exchanged emails every day up until 22 May 2006.

I challenged Sofiya before she asked me for any money and said that her communication style fits perfectly into the "scam pattern". Sofiya then sent me a photo of herself with her mother, a photo of her as a little child etc to try and prove that she was genuine and she even telephoned me in the middle of the night! I felt sorry for her and unfortunately we re-commenced our communication.

On 24 April 2006 Sofiya asked me for money to purchase an air ticket, visa, passport, insurance etc with a total amount of $1,845 USD which I paid via Western Union on 8 May 2006. Sofiya then gave me details of her itinerary on 11 May 2006. Then on 22 May 2006 whilst she was supposedly in Moscow collecting her visa from the Australian Embassy, I received an urgent email request (from an internet cafe apparently) for $2,300 AUD to prove to the Embassy, her financial capacity to stay in Australia during the one month period.

She even telephoned me two times and we talked on the second call and she sounded very distressed begging me to pay that amount via Western Union. I checked the immigration policy in Australia and we actually do have a requirement to pay security bond when application for visa is lodged in certain countries including Russia. I therefore totally believed her and paid $2,350 AUD through Western Union on 23 May 2006.

I have not heard from Sofiya since I sent a confirmation to her that money has been transferred on 23 May 2006. I was so naive and silly that I waited for Sofiya for 3 hours at the airport with a bunch of flowers. Singapore Airlines later confirmed that Sofiya's original booking was cancelled by a Russian agent and that she did not re-book her flights.

The damage for all this was $3,625 USD and a broken heart. Oh and not to mention the one month annual leave that I forcefully obtained from my work and beachfront accommodation and restaurants that I had to cancel.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Is Sex Really An Addiction?

Sex addiction has more exposure today than ever, with household celebrities such as Russell Brand speaking openly about the condition; but what causes sex addiction and what does the problem entail?

Dr Abigael San, a clinical psychologist at The Priory Hospital, says, “Sex addiction, like other addiction problems, is a way of escaping when things get difficult. It’s a coping strategy and it can be very preoccupying. Sex addicts might find themselves spending lots of time sourcing pornography, looking at it and trying to get hold of it.”

Most people think that a sex addiction must stem from a sex-related issue, but usually it comes from the nature of addiction itself and is more about the feeling of helplessness. Dr. San explains, “Sex addiction runs a lot deeper than just sex. Of course, factors like a high sex drive are going to be relevant but they’re rarely the cause of sex addiction.” Although it’s an easy stereotype to place, sex addiction is usually more common in men than women, but that could be for a number of reasons, ranging from the fact we might expect men to carry the addiction, to the possibility that it’s more acceptable for a man to have it. With the Internet being readily available, sex addiction has more accessibility, so anyone who might have a tendency to be a sex addict would be able to go down that path.

Dr. San believes that with the right course of action, people can beat sex addiction, “Sex addiction should be treated in the same way as any other addiction problem, which means looking at the reasons behind the addiction and building up other areas of the addict’s life, such as going to therapy meetings, where they’ll meet new people and have less opportunity for encouraging their addiction.”

The best way to deal with sex addiction, or even worries about sex addiction, is to have an assessment by a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist, and then take relevant addiction treatment from there.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Dating Can Reduce Your Work Stress

Workaholics are those who love to keep on working all the time even if there is no pressure of work on them. Personal lives of these types of people gets affected, no doubt they are respected in professional lives.

It is mandatory to work in order to survive in this world. However, everyone in this world needs something interesting apart from their professional lives and wants to meet someone special whether one is a workaholic or not. Workaholics have less time for interaction with other people and they are not able to attend social events leading to disturbed social lives. It has been proved by the studies on workaholics that these people tend to have less sleep, more stress, tensions and anxiety resulting to health problems such as back pain, flues, headaches etc.

There are few helpful tips for workaholics to improve their lifestyle. The first and most important point to remember is to give the same priority to your date that you give to your work. Never cancel or postpone your dates because of any other work. Always try to keep it as precious as your work. Get in touch with your old friends or make some extra social circle as you never know who will be your date. Try to avoid work related topics, try not to irritate your dating partner while you are on a date.

One must try to take a day off once in a month for a long drive to the countryside resulting in a positive relationship with your date.

DO NOT attend to any work related calls while you are on a date as this can make your date feel neglected.

If you are a workaholic, you might end up missing out some great and interesting things of your life. One can try out online dating also with less time investment.

First of all, create an account on a social networking website or any available online dating website. Always try to create an honest profile as you will never be able to find perfect match by creating false profile. Keep responding to your date regularly and don’t keep your partner waiting for your responses and replies. Keep in mind not to talk about work related topics whenever you go for your very first date. Once you have entered into a relationship, try to schedule for “Date Nights” that might help both you and your date to know more about each other.

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Sunday, May 17, 2009

Dating Tips for Men

How an ordinary guy like you and me can attract women any place, anytime?
How to improve your looks?
How to get a girl's attention?
How to get a woman's phone number?

Yes my dear friends a man always try to find out these answers before a dating.
Dating can be hard and dangerous if you didn't have some tips about a woman. Every man wants a beautiful girl friend as a good partner. Well it is very difficult to find out that what a woman want? but our tips will give you good suggestions like what to bear , how to react and what to say? You should always keep attention of woman who interest you. What's the first thing a woman notices if she's attracted to you?Never ask a woman that you are tall, rich, or handsome. If you believe that lie, you will never get anywhere with women. Find out what works and what just makes a guy look like a dork.
Always choose inexpensive but FUN locations for a date. Try to looking handsome and smart by clothing before a date. So you should be prepare in all the way before a perfect dating.

Never tell a lie with your dating partner, Try to move her on reality of life. You should never ask her age or date of birth. Always try to appriciate of her beauty and goodness.